June 17, 2014
You will only measure the true and deep love if you have the element of time, distance, quarrels, misunderstandings and all the nega sides of bein in a relationship. It’s about how you would respond to it, would you give up, let go or sit down and work it out.
If you’re still happy amidst the arguments, go for it. If it’s more of pain and suffering though, rather than a happy, content and inspiring relationship, then I guess you know what to do.
Well, many of us girls misunderstood this, including me in the past..were too blinded that we even ignore every pain we feel towards our partner because of our love. Even if we see clearly how painful where we stand at, we tend to still build our hope and fight for that petty love. Of course, I understand women, myself to be specific.. faithful, loyal, tolerable to pain, caring, sweet, will give her partner the sun and the moon and so on and so forth, however, we should also not forget ourselves. Girls, we should maintain our focus.. keep our composure, take care of ourselves, our hearts, guide our emotions. being in a relationship should always make us feel beautiful (even if were not :D), should inspire us, to motivate, to excel in what we do ant the like.
Oh, Im just affected by the FB statuses of my gal friends venting out about their heartaches. Been there, been that folks..If its too much pain already, get out of that relationship.. A man that truly loves won't even let a single tear drop from your eyes. In the middle of temper-rising moments between the two of you, it's not a matter of who does wrong or whose fault is it anymore; what is important is, who between you is willing to fix it, willing to embrace and say sorry...Oh well, Im guilty myself... I am not that kind of... sometimes :((
its hard to manage emotions especially if your temper boils down into your deepest core.. You just want to shout it out even if it means hurting your partner already, you want to be the righteous and will dig flaws to throw to each other to the point that no one ever wants to listen to each side anymore..
Hmm.. talking about relationship.. it really takes an nth effort to make it work and conquer every struggles along the way..for me, true love is about understanding, respect, compassion
and above all, love, love and just love naturally...It is something that
sprouts and blooms innately, not being forced, not out of pity or not
out of practicality or any other reason. If it's something driven by any other factors out of love itself, then you must likely have a miserable and pathetic ending. #notetoself.
